How to: hand-job tips

Giving a hand-job is an art in itself. Although there are those who claim that they’re better at it themselves, we should not be discouraged. It’s a powerful feeling to hold his love stick and determine which direction to go. Let’s get ready to beat him at his own game!

The wetter the better

Dry wine can be very tasty and dry weather is also a bonus, but when it comes to jerking off, dry is the last thing you want. So, always use lube to make sure that things run smoothly. It may feel a bit over the top the first time you use it, but trust us: it does make all the difference. If you want to make it extra horny, spit a good dollop of saliva on the top of his cock and use it to slide your hands down his slippery shaft.

Take a firm hold

Firmness is good, but be careful not to squeeze too hard. You do want enough blood to flow through the cock. A penis flying in all directions because you are too enthusiastic at first, is not the sexy start you aim for. So start slowly and choose a steady rhythm. You can also use both hands for a change. Most men love it, because they don’t (often) do that themselves.

Build up the excitement

Don’t go wild right away. Start slowly and build up your movements and the excitement. Gradually hold him more firmly and move your hand(s) faster up and down. That way the intensity of his sensations will build up slowly.

Stimulate sensitive spots

During a hand-job, don’t just focus on his erection, but also pay attention to his sensitive spots. Consider his balls, for example, which are pretty sensitive. So you can make good use of this. You can choose to massage them with your free hand, gently squeeze them or playfully tug them. If you are up for it, you can even gently lick or suck them.

Switch it up

A hand-job doesn’t just involve moving up and down. Men often have their own standard routine. If you pleasure him, it’s nice to do something different from what he’s used to. For example, you can consider the orange press technique. As you might guess, with this technique you move as if squeezing an orange. Make rotating movements over the head with your hand. Let your hands alternate as they rotate down his shaft, and in the opposite direction too. Hooray for variety!

Watch his breathing

Don’t forget that you are in control! You determine if and when he comes. Don’t just pay attention to his breathing and encouragements to sense whether he likes something, but also to the tensing of his muscles. Is he getting close? Then you decide whether you want to slow things down or step it up. Just roll up your sleeves and go for it!