10 signs a man is turned on by you

When you are interested in a man, of course you want to know if he feels the same way. Deciphering his signals can be frustrating sometimes – you try to see if he reacts differently to you than he does to other attractive women and you pay attention to subtle changes in his mood to figure out whether he picks up your vibes.

Let’s be clear: there is not one definite way to know that a man is really turned on by you. But the more signs you recognize, the more likely you’ll be on the same wavelength. Dont just pay attention to physical signs, but also to the vibes – sexual tension is real, and when there is a strong connection, you can both feel it. The 10 signs below will give you more certainty about this.

1. He explicitly tells you. If a man tells you directly that he’s turned on by you, believe him. He’s not trying to flatter you or boost your ego. Phrases like “You get me so excited” or “I can’t stop thinking about you” are clear indications that he’s ready for more intimacy. Of course not all men are so explicit, but when he says it, he means it.

2. He gets aroused. If a man gets an erection while you are kissing, you know you’re hitting the right note. This is one of the most direct physical signs that he’s attracted to you.

3. He’s breathing faster than usual. When a man is sexually attracted to you, you’ll notice his breathing becomes faster and heavier. Whether it’s while you are coming closer, or during making out, accelerated breathing is an indication of arousal.

4. He seeks a lot of physical contact with you. If a man seeks a lot of unnecessary physical contact with you, like touching when it’s not really necessary, he probably wants to get closer behind closed doors too.

5. He looks deep into your eyes. Eye contact can be very intimate. If a man looks deeply into your eyes during kissing or at other intimate moments, he is probably just as turned on as you are.

6. He flirts more than usual. Have you noticed that he’s been flirting with you more than usual lately? That’s often a sign that he’s attracted to you on a new level.

7. His flirtations are becoming naughtier. If he suddenly starts making double entendres or asking dirty questions, he’s letting you know that he sees you in a sexual way.

8. He stares at you when you’re not talking. If you notice him looking at you from across the room, even when you’re not in conversation, this is a clear indication that he’s having trouble taking his eyes off you

9. The sexual tension is tangible. You feel it – that undeniable energy when you are together. It can make your heart beat faster, quicken your breath and get you all hot and bothered.

10. He tries to stay physically close to you, even when you’re not talking. In a group, it could happen that someone comes closer to hear better. Pay extra attention if a man does this with no specific reason – this is one of the clearest signs that he’s turned on by you and wants to be close to you.

Recognizing these signals can help you to better assess whether a man feels the same attraction you feel. Sexual tension can take some time to build, so pay attention to how his behavior towards you changes as your relationship develops. Trust your intuition and enjoy the chemistry you share!