How you can have mind-blowing sex without penetration

Sex is often associated with penetration, but there are numerous ways to enjoy non-penetrative sex. Caresses, massages, and giving pleasure are also forms of sexual exchange. Breaking the pattern of foreplay – penetration – climax may take time and practice, but no pressure; the most important thing is that you feel comfortable with your partner and create a climate of trust together and a safe space to let go.

Female pleasure and orgasm

The clitoris is an essential part of female sexuality and pleasure. With its 10,000 nerve fibres the clitoris is an amazing organ making it possible to reach climax without penetration. Discover the secrets of clitoral pleasure and let your partner focus on this magical spot in your next intimate moment.

Masturbation

Masturbation is a great way to get to know your body, discover your preferences and to break free from your taboos. Nowadays, many people enjoy solo sex by clitoral stimulation and/or penetration. But masturbation during sex with your partner? Yes, this can be very thrilling! It adds a new dimension to your sexuality and it’s fulfilling to see your partner enjoying themselves without penetration.

Sensual touch

When you’re exploring sex without penetration, it’s useful to return to basics: sensual and erotic touch. You can give your partner a sensual massage. This is not your average massage, but a full body massage, including the parts that a regular masseur does not touch. And it works best when you are both fully naked.

This is your chance to be creative with touch. Caress and stroke your partner’s body everywhere with different kinds of touch and ask them to do the same for you. You don’t have to do it hands only, but can experiment with kissing, licking, sucking, biting and teasing too. And slide your body over your partner’s for even more contact.

Playing with sensations

You can add stimulating sensations by stroking your partner with feathers, velvet, or other fabrics, or use some oil. And if you are into kinky sensations, you can try candle wax. But be careful with candles. You can prevent burns by using BDSM candles, or otherwise let regular candle wax cool off a little first. You can also use (aphrodisiac) foods to stimulate the taste buds or skin (like fruits), or use a blindfold for an even more intense experience.

By trying these variations together, you can discover a broader definition of sex and freely explore your sexuality. With sensual touch you activate sexual energy throughout the body, creating a deeper sexual connection.

Enjoy this new dimension of sexuality together, where you don’t need penetration to find arousal and pleasure.