How to spank each other in the bedroom

Some may find spanking a bit of a taboo subject, but let’s be honest – it’s a sexual act that can be very thrilling and hot. Just like with any other sexual act, however, it’s important to know how to do it right.

There are times when you just want to give your partner a silly slap on the ass and there are times when you really want to know how to do it right. We can help you with this, so let’s take a closer look at the art of spanking and make sure you know the right way to pleasure your partner.

Lets get started!

For starters, let’s discuss how to broach the subject with your partner. Spanking can be a bit of a fetish for some, but it’s important to realize that not everyone feels comfortable with it (yet). So, it’s crucial to communicate openly and honestly with your partner about your desires and boundaries.

Once you’ve established that you are both interested in exploring spanking, it’s time to get to work. First of all, you can determine the right location(s) together. This could be anywhere you both feel comfortable; on your bed, on the couch, or even standing in the kitchen.

Once you’ve agreed on the best location, it’s time to choose a good position. There are various positions you can try, depending on your preferences and comfort level. The most important factor is that both the spanker and the person being spanked feel comfortable so they can enjoy the experience.

Next, it’s good to start with some foreplay to build up excitement and bring your partner in the right mood. This can include anything, from soft caressing to sensual kissing, depending on what your partner enjoys.

Spank away!

If you’re ready to discover the naughty side of spanking, a careful approach is crucial. Start slow and slowly build up intensity, while you attentively keep track of your partner’s responses. Alternate between naughty slaps and sensual caresses to gradually build up the tension and let your partner enjoy an arousing experience. It may seem exaggerated, but it’s also good to agree on a safeword beforehand, so you can indicate clearly when things feel a little too much or too intense. This way you can safeguard your limits and create a safe space to explore and experiment together. 

When spanking, it’s essential to adopt a confident position. Stand firm, keep your balance and focus all your attention on pleasuring your partner. An open communication and exchange of feedback are key, so don’t be afraid to talk and discover together what’s most exciting for you both.

Aftertalk

After the thrilling play, you can move on to some cuddling and a cozy recap. Take your time to share what you both found arousing and how you could make it even more fun next time.

All things considered, spanking can be a playful and naughty experience that can spark the passion and strengthen your relationship. With the right communication, skills and loving (after) care, it can be a thrilling addition to your intimate moments. So, what are you waiting for? Dive into the thrilling world of spanking together and spank your way to higher heights!