5 tips to help avoid pain during sex
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5 tips to help avoid pain during sex

By Sabine, 15.03.2021

Ouch, a painful sexytime is not something to be happy about. It’s very uncomfortable and will keep you from enjoying the sex to the fullest. We would like to help you out with these 5 tips to avoid pain when having sex.


Not everyone likes the same stuff, so be sure to find out what your sexpartner likes. If the sex hurts it won’t be the best idea just to ram it in. Men tend to go a bit too fast, chances are you are not wet enough. If you talk about it, you will both find out what you like. It might even improve the foreplay, which will help you to feel more relaxed and horny.

Ignore the little voice in your head

The most annoying thing might be the little voice in your head. You are already scared that you will experience pain and that the sex will go awry. You fear that it’s all your fault. You have to face up to that voice in your head and be above it! It’s just an annoying person, you are better than that! 

Be wet

The most important part for the woman: foreplay. Men tend to skip it, but for women it’s very important. It helps women to get really wet and the sex will be better because of it. Don’t be in a hurry. Take the time enjoying each other and keep the teasing going. That’s how you get turned on the most. 


A very easy way to avoid pain is to use lube. Lube works like magic. Does it take you a long time to get wet? Lube will solve your problem. You have your lube that is water based, what helps not to damage the condom. And you have lube that is silicone based. This will help to keep things moist longer, even in the shower. Try out what works best for you. 

Enjoy it

The most important thing is of course: enjoy the sex. Don’t focus on the climaxing so much, but focus on your partner, your connection, enjoy it. Touch, fondle, kiss. Make it as passionate as possible, to enjoy each other to the fullest.

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