by Janna
30.06.2025
All kinds of women in lingerie
Identity

Learning to enjoy your own body

We are all born in a body. But somewhere along the way — between magazines, looks, gym halls and embarrassing sex education — we lose that natural relationship. What is it replaced by? Judgement. Comparison. Distance. Sometimes even shame. And yet, it’s exactly that body in which you live, love, long and feel. With which you breathe, laugh and, yes, climax too. Time to get reacquainted. Enjoying ≠ being perfect We’ve become so accustomed to the idea of having to...

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by Yentl
26.06.2025
Icecubes on a naked woman's back
Erotic story

Erotic Story: Ice cold

It is warm. Well, scorching, actually. The thin fabric of my dress sticks to my skin. I don’t know why, but hot weather always turns me on. As if sex is suddenly in the air. ‘Can you bring some ice cubes for in the wine,’ I call out from the couch, as Lucas walks to the kitchen. It feels like forty degrees Celsius outside and I’m sprawled out on the couch with my legs over the armrest, hoping for a...

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by Janna
23.06.2025
Sexy couple cuddling on the floor
Interests

Good spots outside the bedroom

Sex in bed is comfortable, familiar and easy. But it can also get predictable. What if you think outside of those four walls? Sex in a different place can be exciting, surprising and even more intimate than you think. But what are good alternatives — and how do you ensure that it’s fun for both of you? Sex doesn’t have to be in a fixed location We often think that sex belongs in the bedroom, preferably in the dark, under...

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by Janna
19.06.2025
Sexy couple touching eachother
Lifestyle

The art of edging: holding off for a more explosive climax

You know that moment, you’re close. You feel the excitement building, your body tenses, your breath quickens and then … nothing. Well, not yet. You stop. You wait. And you continue to play. And stop again. And so on. Until you reach a point where feeling and loosing yourself merge.  What is edging? Edging is deliberately delaying your orgasm while continuing stimulation. You take yourself (or each other) to the edge, stop or slow down just before coming, and then...

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by Janna
16.06.2025
Sexy couple with a bottle of lubricant
Lifestyle

Lubricant is sexy (and other things we would have liked to know before)

Lubricant. Just the word sounds a little clinical, right? As if it’s something for “when things don’t automatically work.” But you can forget about that idea immediately, just throw it in the trash. Because lube is not a remedy, but an upgrade. And the same goes for plenty of other ‘aids’ in bed.  Lubricant is not a sign of ‘lack, but of luxury There are many misconceptions about lubricant: But the truth? A little lube with oral sex? Yes please.With...

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by Yentl
12.06.2025
Chocolate sauce on womans back
Erotic story

Erotic Story: Chocolate sauce

As soon as the restaurant is finally empty, I walk into the kitchen. Michael looks at me with a beaming smile. In no time, he takes me to the rack cabinet. Behind one of the racks, he takes my hand and makes me do a spin. His eyes roam over me, leaving a trail of intense desire and my breathing quickens. Michael leans against one of the racks. There’s a container of cucumbers on the shelf next to him, and he...

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by Janna
09.06.2025
All kind of sextoys
Fantasies

Your first toy: how do you choose one that really suits you?

Yes, you are ready for your first sex toy. Exciting! Maybe you’ve already been scrolling endlessly on websites with hundreds of vibrators, clitoral suckers, dildo’s, cock rings, bullets, plugs… help!  Good news, you don’t have to know everything to start. Better yet, it’s not about what everyone else uses, but about what you like. And that can be explorative and totally at your pace.  Why a toy? You don’t need a reason. Curiosity is enough.  What do you like already?...

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by Janna
05.06.2025
Sexy couple in bed kissing
Interests

Morning or evening sex: what does your preference say about your libido?

Are you the type that wakes up in the morning wanting more than just a cup of coffee? Or does your sultry self only really come to life after sunset? Whether you are more in the mood in the morning or at night, your preference reveals more about your body, libido and love life than you may think. Team morning sex: fresh, fruity & hormonally charged Many people tend to feel aroused in the morning, and there’s science behind this. ...

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by Janna
02.06.2025
Sexy woman on bed with her phone
Fantasies

Sexting: the foreplay of today

Why sultry words on WhatsApp can make all the difference and how to keep things exciting without cringe.  In a world where we spend more time on our phone than with our partner (ouch…), it’s no surprise that sexting has become a serious form of foreplay. But there’s a thin line between exciting and awkward. How do you keep sexting sexy, stylish and, above all, exciting? And what are the smart hacks and must-knows of 2025? What is sexting exactly?...

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by Yentl
29.05.2025
Sexy woman in a bikini
Erotic story

Erotic Story: In the evening sun

With a sigh, I sink into the loungeset on my balcony to catch the last hours of sun. The sun still feels warm on my skin. I lean back and brush a strand of hair from my face. I was made for these summer evenings. The soft breeze, the bright blue sky, I love it. I gently let my fingertips stroke the bare skin of my legs. A tingling shoots through my body. If there’s one thing evenings like these...

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by Janna
26.05.2025
Some cocktail glasses
Dating

The best alcoholic drinks for a first date

On a first date, it’s all about the right atmosphere – and it starts with what’s in your glass. Drinking the right cocktail doesn’t only help you relax, but it can also say a lot about who you are and the kind of vibe you radiate. So which drinks are perfect for a first date?  1. The classic cocktail: the Martini If you want to radiate style and confidence, a Martini is your go-to drink; elegant, timeless and a little...

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by Janna
22.05.2025
Man and woman laughing together
Dating

How physical contact outside the bedroom can improve sex

We all know that the bedroom is the place for sizzling passion, but what if the key to better sex lies outside those four walls sometimes? Physical contact, even in its simplest forms, has the power to build up tension between two people and deepen their connection. From walking hand in hand to that unexpected shoulder rub – it may seem insignificant, but it can change everything.  Attention in the small things Sometimes it’s small things that make the difference....

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