by Janna
13.04.2026
Man and woman relaxing next to eachother
Dating

Situationships: the survival guide for the grey zone

You share a Netflix account, know each other’s favorite take away restaurant and the sex is amazing. But when you ask about the status? Eerie silence. Welcome to the world of the situationship. In 2026, this phenomenon has become the standard: we want the benefits, sociability and exclusivity, but would rather avoid the heavy label of an official relationship. It’s the ultimate emotional purgatory mode. How do you survive this grey zone without losing your mind (or your heart)? The...

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by Janna
09.04.2026
Different kind of sextoys
Interests

Does the use of sex toys ruin your sex life?

It’s one of the most frequently asked questions in the world of modern sex: will I be ruined if I use my vibrator too often? In a time where toys have become increasingly powerful and technology is coming at us from every which way, concerns are growing too. We fear that our own touch, or that of our partner, won’t be enough. But what’s the deal here? Does a toy make your sex life lazy or is it actually the...

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by Janna
06.04.2026
Man with an eggplant in his hand
Fantasies

Advanced handwork: stimulating techniques to surprise him

Let’s get straight to the point: we all know the classic hand movements by now. And of course there’s nothing wrong with the standard up-and-down method, but a little variation in your handwork can make a world of difference to his experience. The beauty of your hands is that they give you much more control over pressure, pace and texture than with any other form of sex. Let’s take your skills to the next level with these three techniques. Lubricant...

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by Yentl
02.04.2026
Man and woman smiling and teasing eachother
Erotic story

Erotic Story: Pleasantly surprised

It’s happening again. We’re flirting again. The office party setting works in our favor, and I’ve had enough alcoholic drinks to let my imagination run wild. And that’s exactly what’s happening. Ruud’s outfit is secretly making my insides run wild. His hand caresses my bare shoulder. He’s found one of the thin straps of my dress and playfully tugs it back and forth every now and then. He undoubtedly also feels the tension this creates. In fact, I think it’s...

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by Janna
30.03.2026
Sexy woman on top of a man
Fantasies

Kink shaming yourself: why your desires are never dirty

Have you ever had a passionate fantasy, where you immediately thought: where on earth did that come from? You’re not alone. While we do talk more openly about sexuality in 2026, many are still fighting a bitter internal battle that we call internal kink shaming. It’s that harsh voice in your head that labels your deepest desires as weird, wrong, or even dirty. But where does this shame come from and how do you turn it into a strength? Survival...

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by Janna
26.03.2026
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Dating

Is Sexual Fasting the ultimate relation trend of 2026?

In a world where everything is available on demand, we sometimes forget that waiting is the best sauce. We order food through an app, swipe to a date and expect passion to always be available on demand. But what if the key to better sex doesn’t lie in doing more, but in doing nothing for a while? Meet Sexual Fasting. What exactly is sexual fasting? It may sound like a punishment, but sex fasting is currently a huge trend among...

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by Janna
23.03.2026
Happy, sexy woman in a bed
Interests

QUIZ: What is your personality in bed? Test it here!

Are you a fearless explorer between the sheets, or do you most enjoy deep, emotional connection? Everyone has a unique sexual personality. Do this short test to discover which archetype you are (and then send it straight to your partner!). Take your phone or a notepad and for each question below choose the option that suits you best. The result: what type are you? Count which letter you chose most. Mostly A: The romantic soul: sex is the ultimate form...

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by Yentl
19.03.2026
Sexy man and woman on a bed kissing
Erotic story

Erotic Story: In secret

After a week of awkward close calls and completely unsatisfying sex, it’s time to go home again. It’s not that we didn’t try. We sneaked off to the car together once, which wasn’t a success really, in broad daylight, with the children’s car seats shining in the back. We secretly messed around in the swimming pool, which was actually rather stressful. It didn’t even work out in the arcade, when we ended up in the simulator together. It just wasn’t...

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by Janna
16.03.2026
Woman with bra
Fantasies

Hot positions where breasts take center stage

Breasts are often more than just a backdrop in sex. In the right position, they direct attention, pace and excitement. Some positions mainly revolve around breasts, not through acrobatics, but through position and timing. Here are some positions where breasts actively participate. Bosom buddies In this position, the partner sits up, for example on a chair or against the headboard of the bed. The woman sits in their lap, her upper body leaning slightly forward. This way, her breasts are...

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by Janna
12.03.2026
Small altar with precious stones
Interests

How to bring your spirituality into the bedroom

The bedroom is often the place where we either pass out after the long day, or try to fall asleep while scrolling on our phones. Such a shame! Because your bedroom is the place where the veil between the physical and spiritual world is thinnest. Whether you’re single or with a partner, you could make this space your sanctuary. Here’s how you can bring more soul between the sheets (and no, you don’t have to meditate for hours). 1. Clear...

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by Janna
09.03.2026
Man with his hands on his balls in pants
Lifestyle

Check your goods: the big MOT down-under

Let’s be honest: we spend hours picking the right sneakers, trimming the beard or scrolling through our feed. But when was the last time you actually took the time to look after your ‘crown jewels’? A monthly check-up of your penis and testicles isn’t a luxury; it’s the most important MOT you can give yourself. Why is it so important? Your testicles and penis aren’t just for show or pleasure; they’re indicators of your health. Early detection: testicular cancer is the...

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by Yentl
05.03.2026
Naked woman in a bar with drinks
Erotic story

Erotic Story: His fantasy

As I walk past the tables, I feel more naked than ever. All these people sitting there, chatting away and I’m walking here in my Eve costume and an apron. I actually look a bit like a flasher this way. I sigh as quietly as I can before pushing open the kitchen door. Soft music is playing and I hear some commotion coming from the kitchen. ‘I’m not taking any more orders! And no requests either!’ I hear Michel call...

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