by Janna
25.04.2024
Man is leaving while woman is asleep in bed
Dating

The eternal debate about sex on the first date

Whether sex on the first date is a good idea has been a major topic of discussion for years. Some people see advantages in it, while others prefer to wait a bit longer. Everyone has their own reasons, having to do with personal preferences and cultural standards and values. Standards and values Dating can be pretty exciting sometimes, especially a first date. People have different standards and values for dating. Some prefer playing hard to get, while others are very...

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by Janna
22.04.2024
Blindfolts and strawberries
Fetish

What’s the difference between a kink and a fetish?

People have different preferences in the bedroom, varying from the more traditional to more adventurous. While kinky sex is getting more and more normalized, there are still misunderstandings about the differences between kinks and fetishes. So what is a kink? A kink is a sexual preference that deviates from what is considered to be ‘normal’, but is still arousing. Variations depend on individual and social context. Common kinks are those of dominance and submission, and bondage and sadomasochism. There’s a...

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by Janna
18.04.2024
Man and woman in bed
Media

The sounds you make during sex don’t say anything about your pleasure!

A common misunderstanding in relationships, or with informal dates, is that, if you’re not making much noise during sex, you’re probably not enjoying it. In reality, what’s more important is that there’s a clear communication with your partner and that you make clear to them how turned-on you are. If you don’t make a sound when having an orgasm, this can well be a clear sign that you and your body are fully present in the moment. Here are just...

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by Janna
15.04.2024
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Orgasm

Why men enjoy a woman’s orgasm too

During sex, an orgasm is the highlight, literally and figuratively. And yes, the clichés are true, nine out of ten times, men are quicker to reach climax than women. But this doesn’t mean to say that men can’t also enjoy women’s orgasms. In fact, seeing and experiencing a woman’s orgasm can be extremely satisfying and arousing to men. Connection and pride Experiencing a partner’s orgasm isn’t only a source of pleasure for men, but also one of pride and emotional...

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by Annabel
11.04.2024
Sexy waiter
Erotic story

Erotic Story: A sultry evening in Milan

It’s the last evening of our city trip in Milan. Since our flight back to Amsterdam is tomorrow afternoon, we decide to go out for a fancy dinner tonight. Rosa found a beautiful rooftop restaurant with a view on the typical white cathedral that Milan is so famous for. Rosa is dressed up in a beautiful royal-blue evening dress, which perfectly matches her red curls. I put on a suit with a deep neckline, so you can see the edge...

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by Janna
08.04.2024
Woman under the shower
Masturbation

The pleasure of masturbation in the shower

Showering is not just an everyday task, but can also be a moment of self-indulgence and pleasure. For many, it’s a precious me-time moment to relax completely and let yourself go. It’s precisely this time for yourself that can give you an extra dimension of pleasure and discovery. Showering gives a sense of freshness, but it also offers various benefits for your health. The warm shower jets can help you to relax your body and stimulate the release of endorphins,...

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by Yentl
04.04.2024
Two sexy women with naked butts in lingerie
Erotic story

Erotic Story: My night

She smiles at me, little wrinkles form around her eyes and she sucks in her bottom lip. She looks hungry, as if she’s ready to attack at any moment. Her breasts are perfectly tight in the cups of her bra and the dark colour looks breath-taking on her. As if this isn’t seductive enough, she also smells really good, like a fresh spring morning. Her bright blue eyes look at me expectantly and she sweeps a lock of hair over...

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by Janna
01.04.2024
Man and woman in bed making out
News

Why do we fake orgasms?

Faking an orgasm is a topic we pretty much rather avoid. But let’s be honest, both men and women do it sometimes. And the reasons why people do, can be quite surprising. So let’s shed some light on why people pretend and what drives them to fake it. The reality of faking  No one wants to end up in a situation where their partner fakes an orgasm. And yet, this often happens without us realizing it, and it doesn’t always...

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by Janna
28.03.2024
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News

How many calories do you burn during sex?

Sex isn’t only fun, it can also be a surprisingly effective workout. Although it may not be the first activity that comes to mind when you want to burn calories, the physical exertion involved in sex can bring considerable benefits to body and mind. So let’s take a look at how many calories you actually burn during a steaming sex session between the sheets. The factual burning figures Let’s start with the facts. Research shows that on average men burn...

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by Janna
25.03.2024
Man and woman looking at a laptop in bed
Fantasies

Watching porn with your partner

Whether you’re looking for some extra spice in your relationship or just want to experience the fun of watching naked strangers going at it; watching porn together with your partner can be a thrilling idea. But how do you introduce this subject, if it’s new for you as a couple? And what are the pros and cons? Start the conversation Communication is the starting point. Start the conversation lightly and carefully check what your partner thinks about it. Openness and...

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by Yentl
21.03.2024
Some different sextoys
Erotic story

Erotic Story: Favorite toy

It was barely eleven o’clock when I came home from dinner with friends. I’d planned to be as quiet as possible, but the effect of the glasses of wine that I’d downed a little too quickly, was starting to kick in. I threw my bag somewhere against the shoe rack and my coat carelessly over the coat rack. Ravi sat slumped on the couch and looked at me with a smile when I opened the door to the living room....

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by Janna
18.03.2024
Woman opens a condom package
Sex Attributes

6 mistakes to avoid when using condoms

Condoms are essential for safe sex, but even these reliable protectors can fail if they aren’t used correctly. Correct use of condoms is crucial for maximum protection against pregnancy and STDs. Let’s discuss the six most common mistakes you should definitely avoid to keep your condoms safe. Mistake 1: Unfavorable storage Condoms need the right circumstances for optimal performance. Make sure you store them in a cool, dry place, away from direct sunlight and heat. Your wallet or glove compartment...

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