by Janna
02.11.2026
A clock with the txt time for sex
Interests

How long does sex usually last?

In the afterglow, still flushed, and a little out of breath. And then you sneak a glance at the clock on your nightstand: how long did it actually take? You’d deserve a medal if you’ve never thought about this. We compare ourselves to porn, or to friends and coworkers who lie about their hour-long sessions. Time to look at what’s actually true, and the reality is more liberating than you might think. What the figures say In a large international...

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by Yentl
29.10.2026
Sexy half naked couple kissing
Erotic story

Erotic Story: A little treat

He is slouched in the lounge chair, occupied with his phone and seemingly unaware that I am studying him intently. His dark-blond hair is tousled and his deep-brown eyes seem fully focused on the screen. His relaxed posture gives me a warm feeling and my brain instantly calculates whether we would both fit in the chair together. “What are you doing?” I ask, trying to get his attention. “I still have to reply to some work emails, super boring, but the sooner...

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by Janna
26.10.2026
Woman in lingerie on a giant pumpkin
Fantasies

Sexy Halloween: why dressing up and masks can boost your desire

A mask, a different name, an outfit you’d never normally wear. Halloween has long since evolved beyond just skeletons and ghosts. It has become a major dress-up party where anything goes, from pirate to pop star, leaving plenty of room for creative ideas. Maybe roleplay and dressing up sound exciting to you, but taking it to the bedroom feels just a bit too much. Around Halloween, that threshold feels lower. The costume box is open, parties are on the calendar...

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by Janna
22.10.2026
Man and woman kissing with tongue
Interests

What your kissing style reveals about how you have sex

A first kiss says more than you might think. Even before any piece of clothing comes off, you can often tell what someone will be like in bed. Slow and attentive, or eager and a little impatient. Kissing is a teaser, and if you pay close attention, you can read an entire scenario in it. The slow seducer Someone who takes their time when kissing, with long, deliberate movements and the occasional pause to look at you, usually makes love...

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by Janna
19.10.2026
An apple with a measuring tape around it
Identity

Your body has changed, so has your sex life: on sex after major weight loss

When you lose a significant amount of weight, a lot changes – not just on the scale, but in your mind too. You might suddenly feel more confident, view yourself differently in front of the mirror, or feel more comfortable taking up space. It could also be that mental aspect lags behind the physical changes, and looking in the mirror still feels awkward. Both are normal. One thing is certain: something shifts. And that applies just as much to your...

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by Yentl
15.10.2026
Sexy man and woman training in the gym
Erotic story

Erotic Story: You can do it

“Keep it up! Come on, you can do it. Three, two, one … You made it!” I release the tension in my legs and the machine automatically pushes them so far apart that I can practically feel the breeze of the aircon against my slightly sweaty thighs. But that’s not the only thing I feel; I also feel Dennis’ burning gaze upon me. As soon as I look at him, he shifts his eyes away, looking for the next machine...

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by Janna
12.10.2026
An open orange with fingers in it
News

Vabbing: why women use their own vaginal fluids as perfume

The world of dating trends is always moving and the latest craze has caused quite a stir: vabbing. A combination of ‘vaginal’ and ‘dabbing’. The idea is simple yet effective: women use their own vaginal fluids like a natural perfume by dabbing it onto their wrists and neck. But where does it come from and does it really work? What exactly is vabbing? Vabbing revolves around the idea of using your own pheromones to attract potential partners. Pheromones are chemical...

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by Janna
08.10.2026
Man is kissing a woman
Relationship

Five-minute foreplay for busy couples

We’re all busy. Work, exercise and social obligations often consume all our time. The biggest mistake many couple make is thinking that foreplay should last for hours to be effective. Nothing could be further from the truth. With the right focus and a few simple techniques, you can bring the temperature in the room to boiling point in just five minutes. It’s not about the time, but the intensity. The power of the sensory ambush When you’re short on time,...

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by Janna
05.10.2026
All kinds of vegetables and fruit
Food

Can you really boost your libido with a testosterone diet?

New TikToks pop up weekly claiming “these 5 foods are guaranteed to boost your testosterone”. Oysters, red meat, pumpkin seeds, avocados – the list is endless and the promises are huge. Time to check what’s actually true and what’s just marketing designed to score in a supplement brand’s bio. What zinc actually does Zinc offers the most scientifically supported claim. A 2022 systematic review based on 38 studies shows that a zinc deficiency can indeed lower your testosterone levels, and...

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by Yentl
01.10.2026
Sexy man and woman in bed
Erotic story

Erotic Story: Favorite day

My heart starts racing the moment I see him sitting in the waiting room. Adrian has been coming for a massage every Monday morning, and for weeks I’ve been swooning at the thought of touching him again. There’s something about this man – I can’t quite put my finger on it. I’m not the only one who feels like this, though. Ever since his first appointment, we’ve been sharing meaningful glances and flirting shamelessly. My Monday blues are nowhere to...

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by Janna
28.09.2026
A toy with the shape of a clitoris
News

The clitoris quiz: test how well you actually know it

You’ve probably enjoyed hundreds, or even thousands, of orgasms because of it. But can you also explain what it looks like, exactly how big it is, or what’s going on beneath the surface? Most people literally don’t get past the tip. That’s hardly surprising, as for a long time the complete picture was missing in school books and even on medical drawings. Here are six questions to change that. The questions The correct answers What your score says How many...

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by Janna
24.09.2026
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News

Sex recession explains why we’re having far less sex than our parents

Here are some figures worth pausing to reflect on. In 1990, 55 percent of Americans had sex every week. By 2024, that figure had dropped to just 37 percent. Among people in their twenties, the share who went an entire year without sex had nearly doubled, from 15 to 24 percent. That’s not a temporary dip. It’s a trend with a name: the sex recession. Where does that term come from It’s not a new term, but it’s been popping...

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