How to explore anal fingering

What better way to start the new year than by exploring new ways of pleasure? It may a be a strange idea for some, but anal fingering can offer an exciting and delicious sexual experience and also be a perfect introduction to other forms of anal stimulation. Whether you’re a beginner, or aim to improve your skills, here are some useful guidelines for anal stimulation to get you on your way.

Preparation

To ensure a smooth and enjoyable experience it’s best to trim and file your nails in preparation, to prevent wounds, and to wash your hands and lubricate your finger(s) with lubricant (or saliva). The anus doesn’t automatically produce fluid for smooth penetration, like the vagina does, so some extra lubricity is essential.

Anal fingering – step by step

With trimmed nails and lubricated fingers, you can choose a position that suits you, and then gently insert a finger. Take things easy at first, gently explore every sensation and give the sphincter some time to relax, which probably won’t happen immediately.

Once comfortably inserted, you can experiment with moving slowly and experience the tingling sensations. With a little pause here and there, you can play around with soft stimulating movements and discover what you enjoy.

Extra stimulation

You can add an extra dimension by simultaneously stimulating your clit for more pleasure. Although things may feel a bit awkward at first, you will probably soon discover your most comfortable position, for example lying on your side. Once you let go of any awkwardness, you can simply enjoy it and bring yourself to a heavenly climax. Make sure you don’t use the same finger to alternate anal and vaginal stimulation, to prevent transferring bacteria and ending up with an unpleasant bladder infection or urinary tract infection.

Sex toys

For an even more intense experience you can bring some sex toys into play. Add a finger or bullet vibrator for hands-on pleasure; their compact form makes them convenient for maneuvering along all your favorite intimate spots. But there are also hands-free options: wearable vibrators or cock rings can be a thrilling addition. Your own rhythm combined with these extra vibrations will surely get the heat on.

Climax 

While you surrender to this new adventure, it’s essential to keep up the same rhythm when you are about to come. Avoid abrupt movements that cause the sphincter to contract as this can be too sensitive during an orgasm. After you climax, take your time to gently pull out your finger and end your session in a soft and satisfying way.

And you may not know this about climaxing through anal stimulation; the ‘anal orgasm’ is actually a deeper clitoral orgasm, as the largest part of your clitoris extends deep into your abdominal wall. That’s what makes anal stimulation so intense. Who knows… you may get hooked!