Watching porn with your partner

Whether you’re looking for some extra spice in your relationship or just want to experience the fun of watching naked strangers going at it; watching porn together with your partner can be a thrilling idea. But how do you introduce this subject, if it’s new for you as a couple? And what are the pros and cons?

Start the conversation

Communication is the starting point. Start the conversation lightly and carefully check what your partner thinks about it. Openness and respect for each other’s boundaries are crucial. A flirty question or a little white lie to gauge how your partner reacts, can help to introduce the topic. Remember that talking about sexuality is a natural aspect in a healthy relationship.

Discuss boundaries

If your partner reacts positive to the idea of watching porn together, it’s essential to discuss each other’s boundaries first. Porn can contain a wide range of content, sometimes violent or unrealistic. So it’s good to determine what feels comfortable for both of you. Taking turns in choosing content can help to maintain a sense of equality and prevent either party from feeling overwhelmed. Don’t conform to please your partner and mention it if certain footage is too much for you.

Choose ethic porn

Looking for ethical porn production companies that treat performers fairly and portray realistic fun contributes to a positive impact on the industry. By choosing these companies, you avoid supporting content that can be harmful and contribute to a more respectful approach to sexuality.

Create a comfortable environment

Choose a quiet moment and make sure you’re both relaxed. Preferably use a laptop for a better viewing experience and make sure you’re comfortable. Discussing content while watching can help to enrich the experience and even lead to new discoveries about each other’s sexual preferences and desires.

Getting inspired

Instead of considering porn as a fixed model for sexuality, it’s better to see it as a source of inspiration and discovery. It’s not about copying what you see on screen, but about exploring new ideas and fantasies with your partner and finding what works for both of you.

Alternatives

If porn is not your thing, there are countless other ways to experience eroticism together. You can think of reading erotic stories to each other or listening to an erotic podcast or audio book. The main thing is to be open to each other’s desires and boundaries, and together enjoy the thrill and intimacy that comes with your sexual explorations.

All-in all, watching porn together can be a valuable addition to your sex life, if well-discussed and with mutual consent. It can be a way to discover new things, push boundaries and establish a deeper connection with your partner. So why not go down this way with your sex life together?