Spice it up with sex on exciting locations
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Spice it up with sex on exciting locations

By Janna, 14.10.2024

Have you ever fantasized about sex outside the bedroom? For many, ‘Public play’ is a stimulating way to spice up their sex life. The tension of “will we be seen?” or “how quiet can we be?” provides an adrenaline rush that can boost your sex life. And although this doesn’t mean you have to go at it in the middle of the street, there are numerous ways to discreetly and safely spice things up with exciting locations.

What makes public play so thrilling?

Let’s be honest, routine can dull even the fiercest flame in bed. Public play is the ideal way to bring back that excitement and surprise into your sex life. The idea of doing something you shouldn’t do, adds an extra thrill. It’s all about the combination of the forbidden feeling and the physical excitement of focusing on each other without distraction. You depend on each other in a public setting, which strengthens your connection.

The thrill of public play often lies in its unpredictability. It’s different from having sex at home: you never know exactly what might happen, and that makes every touch just that bit more intense. And sharing the adventure strengthens your bond. Experiencing such an exciting, naughty secret undertaking together, makes it very intimate.

Exciting locations to try

Now that we’ve highlighted why public play is so attractive, you probably wonder where to start. Don’t worry, here are some suggestions which are both discreet and exciting. Think of places where you can feel the thrill of being in a public place, without the immediate risk of getting caught.

In the car: a classic! Park in a quiet place, away from the crowds. The limited space makes things physically challenging and the feeling that someone could pass by at any moment, keeps up the suspense. Pro-tip: tinted windows offer a little extra privacy.

In a secluded park: find a quiet place among the greenery, far away from any hiking trails. It wouldn’t hurt to bring a plaid for comfort. The feeling of being surrounded by nature while sharing an intimate moment, can be very arousing.

The cinema: it’s dark, with Dolby surround sound, and if you pick a movie that you wouldn’t mind missing parts of, it can be a perfect place for a bit of sneaky fumbling. Avoid crowded viewings – you don’t want to entertain a full house!

In a changing room: have you ever tried on new outfits and wondered how exciting it would be to get your partner involved? Changing rooms are small and intimate, and if you’re lucky, you can hear the sales rep moving around nearby.

At a party: large parties are ideal for a quick get-away to a quiet place. Whether it’s a bedroom or bathroom, the thrill of “will they miss us?” makes your secret moment extra intense.

Vital tips for safe public play

Public play is exciting, but there are a few things to take into account to keep it fun and safe.

Firstly: respect for others. No one else needs to be a witness to your escapades, so make sure you choose a place where you remain undisturbed as much as possible. Make privacy a priority.

Secondly: safety matters too. Choose a location where you won’t get into trouble if you happen to be spotted. Think of secluded places, more quiet moments of the day and situations where you can stop quickly if necessary.

Last but not least, communication with your partner is essential. Make sure you are on the same page about what’s going to happen, what your boundaries are and how you can keep things safe. Discussing your fantasy together is almost as exciting as making it real.

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