Small penis? Tips and positions!

Sexual performance is often measured by the size of a man’s penis, but is that justified? If you think that the size of your johnson is decisive for a satisfying sex life, you’re wrong! What matters is how you handle it in the bedroom. Do you or your partner have a small penis? Here are some tips for an exciting, creative and versatile sex life.

The myth of size

Many men with a little ‘buddy’ lose confidence, because society makes them believe that, to give your lover pleasure, the ultimate tool has to be big. When it comes to sexual satisfaction, however, there’s much more to it than just size. It’s good to realize that not everyone gets an orgasm by penetration sex alone. Thankfully, there are ways to shift focus and still enjoy yourself between the sheets. For example by focusing on what’s possible instead of what isn’t. A smaller size can be compensated by techniques and aids like penis sleeves. These silicone sleeves add length and girth, which can increase pleasure. Additionally, various sexual positions and accessories like a C-shaped bullet vibe can offer extra stimulation.

The importance of pleasure & foreplay

So, performance isn’t everything. Both partners experiencing pleasure is what it comes down to. Sexual health experts emphasize that you have more fun in bed if you focus on the positive aspects. And that penis size is actually not as important as you may think. Instead of discouraging yourself with what doesn’t seem possible, it’s better to focus on sexual acts that are possible. Make sure to enjoy each other and your intimacy and take time for foreplay: delicious kissing, caressing, licking, fingering, massaging, nipple stimulation, tickling, stimulation with sex toys. There are plenty of possibilities. And, as mentioned before, a lot of women don’t come from penis penetration alone anyway and need other stimulation to reach climax.

Positions

The 3 positions below are very suitable if your manhood is smaller than average: 

• Clam

The clam position works well because of the close contact during penetration and the possibility for circular movements. As lady you lie on your back, lift your pelvis and bend your legs towards the shoulders in a V-shape. Your partner now aims straight down for penetration, while you contract your vaginal space for a tighter fit.

• Sexy spooning

Spooning may not sound so exciting, but this position does have its benefits. Being so close together makes it feel very intimate, and this position also offers possibilities for intense stimulation. Win-win! You can lift your leg for a tighter and deeper fit.

• Butterfly

With a modest penis, finding the right angle for penetration is crucial. By tilting your pelvis upwards, you give him deeper entrance and better access to your G-spot. You can sit on a table with your butt on the edge and just lean back and enjoy.

Ultimately, sex isn’t so much about the size of his penis, but much more about your connection and having a good time with your partner. No matter how big (or small) he may be, there are always ways to enjoy sex and intimacy and give each other pleasure. Stay open to new experiences and communicate about what you like and enjoy to create a satisfying sex life together.