How to watch porn together

Men are familiar with erotic videos, but women – be honest- are too. Why not try to enjoy a horny video together? You might think: why would I watch another couple having sex when I am together with my lover? But watching porn together is not as embarrassing as you might think. In fact, it is the perfect way to discover their (secret) fantasies and turn-ons! 

Even if your lover is not feeling it at the moment, watching a sexy video together will be the ideal way to get him up and running. Men are – as you must know – susceptible to visual stimulation. Studies find that men will be aroused when you serve them a porn video, guaranteed.  So spice up your sex life and put on an erotic video. 

How to introduce porn

When it comes to communicating about sex we advise you to keep it short and to the point. Keep it simple! If you’ve been together for some time already, you probably know what your partners’ take on it will be, if they need extensive convincing or maybe just a quick nudge. Choose a casual moment to open the conversation. Opt that you want to try something new. You can mention you’re curious about your lover’s preferences. Or put on a porn to watch and learn. You might even replay the scenario together. 

What video to pick

You should pick a video that turns on both of you. Romantic vanilla sex might not be the stuff that turns on your lover, you might not be into rough orgy sex. To prevent you from searching for hours and hours – this will kill the mood- we have a great tip. Check out Duskt-tv and choose ‘porn for couples’. Here you will find hundreds of amazing porn for women: erotic videos that are female friendly. From here you can scan through all kinds of themes, from romance to BDSM. A feast for the senses! 

While you are watching…

Start off with a 15 minute video and make yourself comfortable. You don’t have to jump on each other during the first minute. Start off with some kissing and hugging, but let the video turn you on first. When you realize ‘the heat is on’ it’s time for foreplay.  You don’t have to watch the video the whole time of course, if you would rather focus on your partner that’s okay too. Whatever works for you, what feels best. Eventually you will forget there’s a video playing anyway.