Rimming

One of the subjects that still seems to be taboo is rimming. Butt eating, anilingus, or whatever you want to call it; a lot of people find it thrilling to be stimulated in this very intimate way. Of course this is something you should ask permission for first. You can’t just go digging around with your tongue unsolicited. Additionally, it’s also important to ensure good hygiene if you want someone to lick your butt.

Taboo

Anilingus is stimulation of the anus with the tongue, which is most commonly referred to as rimming. This sexual activity is still taboo, which in our opinion is totally unjustified! The anus is a very sensitive spot for both men and women, and everyone in between. A lot of nerves are situated around the anus, which makes stimulating this spot very pleasurable.

Hygiene

When you get in between the sheets with someone, it’s always preferable that your bodies are clean and fresh. Especially if you involve the anus in your sex play, it’s important that you are clean. This may sound gross, but there are often a lot of poop bacteria around the anus and you don’t want to get (too many of) those in your mouth. You can choose to take an anal shower or shave, but not everyone is a fan of this. Just make sure the area between the butt cheeks is thoroughly washed with soap right before you go at it.

Positions

Doggy is a good position for rimming. The person being pleasured can sit on hands and knees so the other has easy access to everything. As you stimulate the anus with your tongue, it can be nice to give the clit or penis some extra attention with your hand. And soixante neuf can also be an enjoyable way to rim. If your partner spoils you orally, you’ll probably get extra horny, which makes rimming even more fun to do.

Step by step

Start slowly and rub the anus with your fingers, and using a bit of lube here probably feels good. If you like, you can opt for a flavored lubricant. Then start giving playful licks with your tongue. You can work your way up from the bottom, or circle around with your tongue. Alternate by softly pressing your tongue against the anus. Just be careful and find out what your partner likes best along the way.