Sex in the shower

Sex in the shower

By Janna, 03.07.2023

In movies, we regularly see exciting and sensual sex scenes in the shower. In real life, setting such a scene can be a lot trickier. Because let’s face it: sex in the shower is an art in itself. But with these tips, you can make your shower session just as sultry as in those movie scenes.

Setting is everything

Let’s start at the beginning: the ambiance in your bathroom. In the movies, bathrooms look like some kind of spa sometimes, or at least look brand new and spotless. Obviously, most people don’t have such a showroom-like bathroom at home. But you can still create a romantic ambiance in your bathroom. Just put on some soft music and light a few candles to avoid the bright bathroom light. Another factor is the temperature of the water. You don’t want the water to be too hot, but cold water might spoil the mood… if you know what we mean.

Heat it up!

Even in the shower you don’t have to go for the final goal right away. You can take your time to lather each other up, warm up and enjoy the water on your skin. Use a scented soap with, for example, the aroma of lavender, sandalwood or vanilla, so you can slowly get in the mood together. Do mind to avoid getting soap in the area of the vulva, as this might upset the natural pH balance.

Slip and slide

Uhm, one more thing about the shampoo and soap bubbles. Of course, it’s all very sexy, cozying up in slippery suds, but make sure to rinse off all soap residue before moving on to the next part of your session. The last thing you need is an injury after slipping during a challenging pose. Your own blunders are never fun, of course, even though listening to the missteps of others can be entertaining. 

Water fun

The showerhead can provide a lot of fun with its various spray modes. Let your senses be stimulated by the touch of cold tiles, fat drops on your nipples or a powerful jet stream on your sensitive spots. Did you know that a lot of sex toys can be used in the shower too?

The right position

All those athletic Kamasutra-positions may be fun, but are they suitable for a shower session? No, not really. Better to choose a standing position and use the wall for support, or go for the position that is possible almost anywhere: doggy-style. Whatever you do, try to avoid changing positions too quickly or too often, which would make it feel more like a gymnastics routine than an intimate sex session.


Whatever you decide to do, don’t expect too much and just enjoy the moment. Even if it might not be as thrilling as in the movies, the main thing is that you enjoy it and have fun together.

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