Positions for an ideal blowjob

Just as you sometimes try out a new position in the bedroom to keep things fresh, a little variety during oral sex can also work wonders. We tend to fall into the same familiar routines, while much more is possible than you might think. Whether you want to put an end to that eternal stiffness in your neck or simply try a different angle: these are the positions for an ideal blowjob.

The Lazy Sunday: supine variation

The most relaxed way is often also the most versatile. When the recipient is lying comfortably stretched out, you have plenty of room to experiment. Instead of endlessly sitting in the same position, you can play with your own position. By shifting slightly or turning your head, you can easily change the angle to stimulate him with your tongue in different ways. It keeps his sensations surprising and physically much more comfortable for you.

The Office Surprise: seated on the couch

Sometimes the best place isn’t the bed but the couch or even an office chair. This position is ideal for an unexpected moment, for example when you’re watching a series together. As the recipient sits and you’re kneeling or sitting in front of them, you have natural access, making this one of the least tiring positions for your back and neck.

Extra tip: do you have a bench in your shower? Then this is also an absolute hit. The combination of the warm water on your body and the intimate setting makes this position even more intense.

The Deep Dive: control and depth

Are you in an adventurous mood and do you really want to go for depth? Then have the recipient stand at the edge of the bed while you lie on your back with your head just over the edge. You’re lying upside down in this position. Because your head is hanging back, your airways are clearer and deep stimulation often feels more natural. It gives a completely different sensation than the standard positions and you have full control over the rhythm.

The Powerful Classic: standing in front of the mirror

There’s something very exciting about giving a blowjob while standing, especially in front of a mirror. The recipient stands and you sit or kneel in front of them. It gives you a great view of what you’re doing and you have your hands free to explore the rest of his body. To relieve the strain on your knees, you can also have him stand at the edge of the bed while you lie comfortably on your stomach on the mattress, giving him all the attention he deserves.

Double pleasure: position 69

Of course, we can’t end this list without the classic of mutuality. Position 69 is all about equality. You lie with your heads near each other’s crotches and can bring each other to simultaneous climax. It’s intense and a little chaotic in the best possible way. Do you find it hard to focus on two things at once? Then take turns who gives the most action, so you can both enjoy it to the fullest.

The finishing touch

Variety is the key to a more enjoyable sex life, even when it comes down to blowjobs. Don’t be afraid to try new angles and use your tongue in different ways. Ultimately, it’s about you having fun together and that discovering new positions can be just as exciting as the finale itself.