The ultimate way to 69
Oral Sex

The ultimate way to 69

By Sabine, 07.10.2019

Who doesn’t love some oral sex every once in a while? It can be just as fun to give oral pleasure as it is to be licked like a lollipop.

Oh, how we just love the 69 position. These tips will help you to create an unforgettable oral sex party! 

Maintain proper hygiene 
This should be a rule for pretty much any sexual activity! There will be times when you just want each other regardless of how sweaty, dirty, or messy both of you are. However, our first rule is the most essential when it comes to 69. 

Always give more than you receive 
How tempting it is just to be in the moment and enjoy the view of your partner between your legs. This is not how it works. Have your moment, than give him or her a better one.

Who’s the boss 
Though almost all 69 action starts with the guy on their back and the lady on top of them, some people (that share similar body types) have no trouble whatsoever “flipping the script” and taking the opposite approach. You can get stuck in the 69 rut though. If it’s comfortable for both of you, the person that wants to dictate the pace and pressure of the 69 oral sex should always be on top and then you should follow his or her lead. To keep it a little more exciting.

A pillow for support 
The last thing that you want to do during 69 is stress and strain your neck. Therefore, make sure that you have a pillow right underneath your head if you’re on the bottom. Thanks to this your neck will be supported and you will be able to really get into the action. And enjoy the sucking and the licking even more.

Use both your Hands for extra stimulation 
One of the biggest problems that people face when it comes to 69 (especially those who do not have a lot of experience with oral sex) is that they always forget they have hands. They just try to do all the work with their mouths. While this effort is always appreciated, using your fingers to mix things up can really start to change the experience in an instant. You can wander around your partner’s body, stimulate the erogenous zones, let your partner use his or her fingers on you, in you. If you are into it you can even try to stimulate the anus.

Keep space & go on all fours 
Usually, people end up right on top of one another during their first 69s. However, you do not have to do so to make this position actually work. In fact, you might even find it more comfortable to have the person on top remain on all fours, allowing for more space and less heat transfer at the same time. So experiment with each position to discover what you like better.

Take your time & be focused 
The only thing worse than never getting any oral sex is having somebody “go through the motions,” just trying to get a job done so you can start hammering away at one another. Believe me when I say that this behaviour is going to get noticed and it will ruin the mood – if it doesn’t derail the whole 69 entirely. Keep in mind: if you want to be this position a frequent part of your sex life, stay present, focused and always give it your best shot.

Try it on your side
There aren’t too many “variations” of the good old-fashioned 69, it is pretty much “what you see is what you get” deal. However, lying on your side can mix things up just enough that it can get a little bit more interesting. Obviously, you will lose the use of one of your hands, but trust us that it can still be a lot of fun.

Let your tongue wander round 
If you are really hitting a groove (and your partner is responding well), then obviously you do not want to change things up to get them off track, especially if they’re about to achieve orgasm. However, you should not be afraid of wandering around from his or her genitals to other areas of the body while kissing and licking them lightly. It’s easy, it’s awesome, it’s fun. Simple as that folks, simple as that!

Change your pace often
Remember that you are not dealing with a lollipop or popsicle. Therefore, you should mix it all up, especially, the pace at which you give oral sex. Variate in pressure and suction that you are applying. Try to mix things up, so that you are creating a unique experience each and every time!

Your partner needs to be cool with this position 
There are some people out there that just don’t like giving oral. However, they’re not too terribly shy about getting it as much as they can. You’re going to need to communicate with your partner and make sure that you are both on the same page sexually, or one of you is going to have an absolutely terrible time which means that in the end, both of you are going to have bad experience from this position.

Just have fun with it
Focusing only on the tips and tricks above to picture-perfect 69 is really going to prevent you from living in the moment! Just have fun with it. After all, we are talking about sex here! If you’re not enjoying yourself, then what’s the point?!

Source: The Stallion Style

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