by Janna
14.09.2026
An orange with a piercing
Fantasies

5 piercings that can change your sex life

Jewelry is meant to be shown off, right? A necklace around your neck, rings around your fingers – all designed to be seen. That rule doesn’t apply to these five piercings. They may sparkle just as beautifully as the rest of your jewelry box, but they also come into play once your clothes come off. Time to get acquainted with the piercings that do more than simply look good. 1. VCH, the all-rounderThe vertical clitoral hood piercing is the most...

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by Janna
10.09.2026
Man and woman doing doggystyle
Sex Positions

Fun variations on your doggystyle

Ask then people about their favorite position and doggystyle is guaranteed to be in their top three. It makes sense, because it is deep, intuitive and rarely a miss. But precisely because it’s so reliable, we often stick to the exact same execution. A shame, because a small adjustment can change the entire sensation. These twelve variations show how much more there is left to explore in a position you thought you already knew inside-out. 1. Spread your knees widerInstead...

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by Janna
07.09.2026
Woman with two men laughing
Fantasies

Compersion: the feeling behind a good polyamorous relationship

Your partner comes home glowing from a date with someone else. The sex was great, the conversation flowed effortlessly, and they’ve already set a date for the next meet-up. And you? Not a trace of jealousy. In fact, you feel something suspiciously close to pride. Warm, almost-proud-of-your-own-partner warm. That feeling has a name: compersion. Almost no one is familiar with the term, but anyone who has ever lived non-monogamously instantly recognizes the feeling. What exactly is it? Simply put, compersion...

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by Yentl
03.09.2026
Sexy man and woman kissing
Erotic story

Erotic Story: Double enjoyment

A sigh rolls over my lips as I effortlessly slide my hands under the fabric of my panties. It was a long day at work and all I want right now is relax. And what better way to do that than with a good dose of self-love? My fingertips tingle on my skin and it tickles when I reach my folds. Again I sigh softly and let two fingertips slide through my wet labia. I’ve been looking forward to this...

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by Janna
31.08.2026
Woman busy with her phone, man is looking irritated
News

Jealousy in the initial phase: normal, intense and (luckily) temporary

You’re head-over-heels, everything feels new and exciting, and then you see him react to a text of his ex. Bam! A jolt hits you straight in the stomach. Welcome to early-stage jealousy – a feeling so intense it’s hard to match with how happy you feel otherwise. Don’t worry: almost everyone goes through this. The question isn’t whether you feel it, but what you do with it. Why it hits extra hard right now In a long-term relationship, you have...

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by Janna
27.08.2026
Two sexy women holding eachother
Interests

What we can learn from gay sex for our own bedroom

Heterosexuals often think that sex follows a fixed recipe: some foreplay, penetration, done. Gay sex doesn’t have that script. Without a set pattern of who does what, the whole autopilot disappears. And that is exactly where things start to get interesting. Time to steal what works. Talking is not a mood killer In gay sex people simply talk more. What do you want, what feels good, what’s okay today and what isn’t? Not as a boring checklist beforehand, but as...

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by Janna
24.08.2026
Sexy woman in bed reading a book
Dating

Sapiosexual: why brains turn you on more than a sixpack

Someone with an average physique says something so sharp that you don’t hear the rest of the conversation. You’re already three sentences ahead in your mind, somewhere between admiration and something much less innocent. Congratulations, you’re probably a bit sapiosexual; which simply means that someone’s brain turns you on more than his abs. Sounds goody-goody, but isn’t. A good joke can do more than a toned body on the beach. That colleague with the dry sense of humor three desks...

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by Yentl
20.08.2026
Man is fingering a blindfolted naked woman
Erotic story

Erotic Story: In confidence

After a warm shower, he plops down next to me on the couch. I think back to our wonderful evening last week. Our night out. Fuck, he always knows how to drive me crazy. I take a sip of my wine and, without looking, I know that his gaze is fixed on me. “You look so beautiful again”, he says in a deep voice. “Thanks, babe”, I smile with my most mischievous smile. I know that I stoke his fire...

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by Janna
17.08.2026
Couple kissing in a bath
Fantasies

Why cold and heat can drive your skin crazy

An ice cube slowly gliding over your collarbone. Seconds later, a hot mouth claiming the exact same spot. That contrast is everything – cold versus heat – on a skin that thought it already knew everything. Your body has become lazy from habit, and nothing breaks that habit as quickly as temperature that isn’t supposed to be there. Your skin is too easy to fool A nipple that has been touched a hundred times, is bored. Put an ice cube...

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by Janna
13.08.2026
Couple cuddling and laughing
Interests

Body language during sex: what your body reveals before, during and after an orgasm

Breath that catches. Fingers gripping the sheets. A back arching just a little more than a moment before. Your body freely chatters away during sex, whether you want it to or not, and it never keeps quiet. The conversation starts long before the climax and continues until well after the last shiver. Anyone who learns to observe, knows more about their partner than that partner would ever say out loud, and that’s precisely why that ability is so thrilling. The...

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by Janna
10.08.2026
Man and woman in the gym
Interests

What working out really does to your sex life (spoiler: only for the better)

You started working out for your fitness. Or because your pants were a little tighter than you liked. Or because a friend lured you to a yoga class and you haven’t stopped since. Whatever the reason: your sex life is quietly benefiting from it. More than you expected. Your body is already on Exercise boosts testosterone. With both women and men. And testosterone is precisely the hormone responsible for that warm, simmering feeling of desire. Not the kind of desire...

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by Yentl
06.08.2026
Sexy woman texting in bed
Erotic story

Erotic Story: A message before bed

It’s close to midnight and my friends have just left. We had a cozy night on the couch together, with drinks and snacks and good old-fashioned chatting. I quietly clear everything up and get ready for bed. Once under the covers, I realize that I’m not tired enough yet. I toss and turn, but I just can’t seem to fall asleep. I’m way too restless. The house suddenly feels different now that my friends have gone home. Before, laughter was...

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