Everything you want to know about the strap-on
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Everything you want to know about the strap-on

By Janna, 20.01.2025

The strap-on. It may sound a little scary or even a little intimidating. But don’t let such thoughts hold you back! This sex toy cannot only boost your bedroom adventures, but can also push your boundaries and dynamic in a surprisingly enjoyable way.

Now what is a strap-on?

A strap-on consists of two parts: a harness and a dildo. You wear the harness around your hips like lingerie or a belt, while the dildo is kept firmly in place by an O-ring or another mounting system. There are simple models for beginners, but strap-ons also come with vibrating functions and even spots for your own stimulation, to suit every taste!

Why try a strap-on?

A strap-on can enrich your sex life in several ways. Here are a few highlights:

  1. Switch dynamics: whether you’re already a natural switch or just want to try what it feels like to be the ‘giver’, a strap-on offers a new perspective on intimacy.
  2. Prostate pleasure: for men, anal stimulation (also called pegging) can bring intense orgasms, thanks to the prostate.
  3. New sensations: whether you opt for anal or vaginal penetration, a strap-on opens the door to stimuli you’ve never experienced before.
  4. Playful switching of roles: many couples find it thrilling to alternate with dominant and subversive roles, and a strap-on fits perfectly within that play.

Where to start?

Are you a newbie in the world of the strap-on? Don’t worry, with a few simple tips it will be an adventure you’ll both enjoy:

  1. Talk about it: discuss your fantasies and wishes with your partner. Openness is the key to a good experience.
  2. Choose the right size: start small, especially if anal stimulation is new to your partner. You can always upgrade to a larger model later.
  3. Use plenty of lubricant: without lube, anal sex is a no-go. Preferably go for a silicon or water based lube.
  4. Take your time: rushing is rarely good, especially if it comes to new sex experiences. So, build up slowly and listen to each other’s bodies.

Positions and creativity

One of the best things about a strap-on is that you can be creative with positions. Doggy style is a classic, but you can also try missionary for more intimacy, or let your partner sit on top for more control. It’s all about discovering what feels best for both of you.

Safety first

Even though strap-ons can’t transmit communicable diseases, hygiene still matters. Clean the dildo thoroughly after use with water and mild soap, or use a special sex toy cleaner. Wear a condom if you share the dildo or use it for both anal and vaginal penetration.

The fun of experimenation

Whether you’ve been together for years, or have just found a new love, a strap-on can give a playful boost to your sex life. It may take some courage to bring it up and try it, but you’ll see that it’s mainly about fun, trust and a touch of adventure. So, go for it and strap it on!

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