How does alcohol affect your love life

Sex and love are often inextricably connected, and who doesn’t like an evening of thrill, arousal and a touch of recklessness? Alcohol can be a wonderful extra to this experience, but it could also become a dangerous double-edged sword. 

The appeal of a drink

A few glasses of wine or a sparkling cocktail can do wonders for the atmosphere. Alcohol reduces inhibitions, making you feel more free and sensual. Think of that first encounter with someone that makes your heart beat faster, where a good glass of wine or a colorful cocktail enhances your mood. The wonderful combination of that relaxing sweetness, the sparkling bubbles, a fragrant wine and curiosity for someone can lead to an intimate connection and a naughty, flirty exchange.

Maybe that drink also helps you to express your desires. It can encourage you to elaborate on your fantasies and express your feelings in a sexy way. Whether you dance in the living room together or make love in a romantic spot, alcohol can add a touch of magic to your moments.

When things get out of hand

But don’t get tempted by the illusion that more alcohol is always better. While a few sips can ignite the spark, too much alcohol can quickly turn a steaming situation into an uncomfortable and unwanted experience. It could make you cross your boundaries fast and, before you know it, you find yourself in a situation you’d rather have avoided.

Too much alcohol can cloud your judgement. What you consider sexy and stimulating one moment, may turn into a source of shame. And that’s the last thing you want after a hot night of passion! Excessive drinking can also lead to physical problems such as impotence or reduced libido, which are disrupting to your intimacy.

The impact on intimacy

Alcohol also affects your body. A drink can ease the run-up to an exciting evening, but it can also affect your physical performance. A good connection with your partner is much more than just the physical act. Emotional intimacy and the energy you share are also part of the equation. And you can also get there without alcohol, so make sure you don’t need it to get into the mood.

A few drinks can make you feel more confident, but don’t get carried away. Make sure you keep the right balance between enjoying yourselves and remaining responsible. Do you want to have an unforgettable time? Then it’s fine to start with a few tempting drinks, but stay in control so you can keep the passion flowing in the right way.

Tips for a spectacular time

Pick your moments: go for a romantic dinner with a good glass of wine, but keep it to a few drinks only so you can stay lucid and sexy. NOTE: health advice for women is to stick to 1 or 2 drinks and for men to 2 or 3 drinks.

Communicate: openly express your boundaries and desires to your partner. This helps to build up excitement without getting into trouble.

Stay in the moment: enjoy the intimacy and connection you share with your partner. Alcohol can improve the atmosphere, but the real magic lies in your interaction.

Be responsible: be aware your boundaries and respect those of your partner. It’s much more fun to enjoy the night together without having to worry about the consequences.

As long as you can just as easily do without, a relaxing drink is a good start of your sexy soiree together.