Sex in the workplace: taboo or thrilling adventure?

If we’re honest: work is often the last place you think about sex. But it happens, maybe not often, but it does. Sex in the workplace is often considered taboo, but is it really such a bad idea, or could those office spices add some extra flavour?

The thrill of forbidden fruit

We all know that feeling of tension in the air, especially when you spend a lot of time with a colleague you really like. That little smile during a meeting, that fleeting eye contact in the kitchen or that accidental touch in passing. Sex in the workplace often starts with a little spark that unmistakably lingers for the rest of the day. And who doesn’t like a little forbidden fruit now and then? The idea that something isn’t actually allowed, only makes it more thrilling.

What are the risks?

Okay, you do have to consider the possible risks. Sex in the workplace can really blur the lines between private and professional. What if things don’t turn out that well? What if it gets awkward, or even stands in the way of your career? It’s not always without consequences, especially if feelings aren’t mutual, or you simply can’t deal with those after-feelings of discomfort. Some colleagues can’t work together normally anymore after such an experience, so it’s important to keep a cool head.

And it’s simply not a good idea for everyone. For some, it’s crucial to maintain strict professional boundaries, making sex in the workplace an absolute no-go. But if you’re good at sensing things and the vibe is right, if there are no power relations or unwanted behaviour, it can be thrilling too.

Is it really worth it?

Only you can answer that question. If it feels right, and you dare to push that boundary, sex in the workplace can be very thrilling. It’s a little secret you share with someone – something only the two of you understand in that moment. The tension, the adrenaline, for many the change from the serious work moment to that unexpected excitement makes it so attractive. And who’s to say that sex always has to happen in the usual places?

But again: make sure that it’s always consensual, that there are no power relations at play, and that it doesn’t become an obstacle to your professional life. Because, although it can be exciting, it’s good to keep your feet on the ground when it comes to work and relationships.

Conclusion: it’s up to you

Sex in the workplace remains a grey area. It can be exciting, but it can also be risky for your work relations and professional reputation. If you choose to go for it, make sure that you assess the situation carefully and always remain respectful to yourself and your colleague. And even if it’s just a fantasy, it can’t hurt to wonder what you’d do if you get the chance?