Deep pleasure: the art of deep-throating

Do you get nauseous of the idea of a “blow job” or “oral sex”? Then deep-throating probably isn’t for you. Sex should be fun for everyone, so only do it if you really feel like it. But, once you master the art of deep-throating, you’ll probably receive loads of praise, as he surely won’t forget an oral experience like that.

The right preparation

Of course you’ll need your mouth, and some lube and loads of saliva. And don’t forget to use a condom, especially if you don’t know your sex partner all that well, as the risk of an STD is higher. But how do you get started? First, you have to get rid of any gagging tendencies. A good exercise for this is to put your fingers in your mouth and feel when you start gagging. Then take a short break before your continue, so you can get used to it. Also, the use of a realistic, flexible dildo can help to get used to the feeling of going deeper.

The right position

If you’re ready to go live, make sure you choose the right position. We advise not to kneel on the ground in front of your partner, as his penis probably has (too) quick access to your throat. Instead, it’s better to sit on the edge of the bed with your partner standing in front of you. That way you keep control of the depth and the angle of penetration, which makes deep-throating easier. Or maybe you prefer your partner to lie on his back, so you keep control that way. You can try different positions to find out what feels good. Make sure that you keep breathing through your nose during this exciting experience.

Special actions

Oral stimulation can be an intimate and sensual experience for both men and women. Actions that make sex more arousing are always fun, if both partners feel good about it. It can be helpful to use a numbing deep-throat-spray. With a minty flavor for fresh breath and extra stimulation for your partner, this spray can help you to go deeper than ever before.

The art of deep-throating

Deep-throating can be an exciting addition to your sexual repertoire, provided that you feel comfortable with it and your partner cooperates respectfully. With the right preparation, technique and communication it can be a thrilling experience for both you and your partner. Feel free to discuss any insecurities and listen to your own body and respect your limits (so don’t feel obliged if it doesn’t feel good). If there is mutual respect and trust and you are up for it, you can explore the art of deep-throating together and reach new heights of pleasure in the bedroom.