All the erogenous zones you haven’t discovered (yet)

Everyone knows that sex is about touch, but we often limit ourselves to the most obvious places. Breasts, buttocks, genitals – all good, but your body has so much more to offer. But let’s get back to basics first. Wat exactly are erogenous zones? They’re body parts that are extra sensitive to touch, because of the many nerve endings situated there. Stimulation of these spots can lead to arousal or even more intense orgasms. You often think of the familiar hotspots, but there are also many surprising spots that can be just as stimulating. So for a change, it’s time to explore your body – and your partner’s – in a different way.

The classics

Breasts and nipples are extremely sensitive and often respond instantly to soft touching or sucking. Buttocks aren’t just pleasing to the eye, but are great for caressing, squeezing, or soft tapping. And of course the lips and mouth: kissing, licking, soft biting – a source of pure arousal.

Your neck and ears

We often underestimate the neck, even though it’s one of the most intimate zones. A whisper, a kiss or soft bite can give you goose bumps all over. And ears take it one step further. Many people have very sensitive earlobes. Gentle blowing, sucking or whispering is often a direct shortcut to arousal.

Inner thighs

The road to the holy grail is at least as thrilling as the destination itself. The inner thighs are filled with nerve endings and are often overlooked. Playful kisses or caresses feel intense  there because it’s so close to “the goal” without actually going there. Anticipation is key.

Back and shoulders

Not necessarily a spot you instantly think of, but a gentle back massage or caressing of the shoulders can be a powerful trigger. Especially if tension and relaxation alternate. It’s not just physically arousing, but also gives a feeling of safety and connection.

Feet and toes

A no-go for some, a guilty pleasure for others. Feet are full of nerve endings, making touch or a massage surprisingly erotic. A foot massage after a long day can easily turn into a lot more.

The lesser-known hotspots

Next to the familiar and subtle zones, there are also a few less-mentioned spots:

• Perineum: the skin between anus and genitals is extremely sensitive and can be caressed gently, or massaged more firmly.
• A-spot: deep in the vagina, just behind the G-spot, lies the anterior fornix erogenous zone. A magic place for many women which can trigger powerful orgasms.
• P-spot: for men, the prostate is a source of intense sensations, often via anal stimulation. Much more intense than most would ever expect.
• Arm pits: slightly taboo, but surprisingly sensual. They’re sensitive, warm and give an intimate feeling when you dare to play there.

Fun facts about erogenous zones

• Your skin is your largest organ – and sensitive practically all over if it’s touched in the right way.
• The clitoris contains more than 8,000 nerve endings, more than any other part of the body.
• Men have sensitive nipples, just like women, but often forget this.
• For some, the connection is so intense that a touch of their nipples can be felt in the clitoris. Your nerve system creates surprising connections between different hotspots.
• Some even feel aroused at the touch of their knees or elbows – each body is unique.
• Oxytocin, the cuddle hormone, is released by touch, so caressing and kissing aren’t only arousing but also stimulate connection.

How to discover more of them?

Go explore. Vary with gentle caressing, firm pressure, wet kisses or even temperature changes with ice or warm oil. Ask what feels nice and don’t be afraid to try new things. Sometimes, real excitement lies in surprise.

Conclusion

Erogenous zones are everywhere. You don’t have to explore all of them, but can discover together what stimulates you. Pleasure isn’t just in penetration or the standard spots, but rather in the unexpected details. So, next time you are intimate, take some time to venture off the beaten tracks. You’ll discover that your body – and your partner’s – has so much more to say.