Why a penis massage gives your sex life a boost & tips!

You might think a penis massage is just a neat synonym for jerking off. But actually, it’s something else really. Because this massage can generate more benefits than just physical pleasure. We give you a few reasons why this massage is really worth a try and some pointers on how you can do it!

First of all, it’s important to know that a penis massage is much more sensual and laid-back than a hand job. A hand job usually also has the purpose of making him climax. But that’s not the goal with a penis massage! In fact, some men may not even get fully hard. But that’s fine, because relaxation is what it’s all about here. By the way, chances are he does get aroused, because you do stimulate a very sensitive area with this massage.

Improved sensation 

Get ready for more sensitivity and enjoyable sensations during sex! By using different techniques, such as stroking, kneading or lingam reflexology (a massage technique with a focus on various pressure points), you can stimulate the nerve endings in the penis. This can lead to more intense pleasure and firework during orgasms.

Relax, take it easy

Just as with any form of massage, a penis massage can stimulate relaxation and reduce stress. The focused touch, soft pressure and mindfulness that are involved in the massage practice, can help to release tension and calm the nervous system. It can contribute to the receiver’s overall well-being and consequently improve the quality of their sexual experiences. And you don’t even have to go to the spa for it!

Beneficial to sexual health

Regular penis massage can have beneficial effects to sexual health. They improve blood circulation, which may improve the erectile function and overall well-being of the penis. Additionally, the increased self-awareness and feeling comfortable with your body, which result from massaging the penis can positively impact sexual confidence and satisfaction.

Lets get started!

Start with a generous amount of lube on your hands and gently lubricate the penis. The most sensitive part of the penis is located in the glans and about 2 centimeters below it; especially the frenulum is comparable with the sensitivity of a woman’s clit.

1. Meatballs: place your hand palms on the glans and make the movements you’d make when rolling meatballs. Make sure there’s enough lube on your palms.

2. Double hands: lubricate both hands generously, because you’ll use them around his penis. Let them slide smoothly down the penis and apply some pressure by gently squeezing your hands together.

3. The orange: pull back the foreskin with one hand and use the other hand to take hold of the glans with your fingertips. Then gently twist and squeeze it as if squeezing an orange (be careful with your nails).

4. The back: place one hand horizontally on the back of the penis. Place the other open hand vertically against the other side and move your hands up and down.

5. The opener: place your hand around the shaft of the penis, with thumb and index finger at the bottom, and pull up in a circular motion, passing your entire hand over the glans and repeat.

6. Cup: cup your hands, with the opening at the bottom. Make sure to use plenty of lube and place the cup of your hands over the glans. Now move them up and down, so that you can hear the sound of the lube.

Don’t be surprised if you’ll both feel relaxed, calm and connected after this massage. Enjoy!