Kinky sex positions for bondage

Are you ready to boost your bedroom experiences? Bondage offers the perfect mix of excitement, trust and pure seduction. With the right positions you can take your play to a higher level. Let go, surrender and discover how sexy control can be!

What is bondage?

Bondage is a playful and sensual practice in which one partner (the sub) surrenders to the control of the other (the dom). This can vary from simple handcuffs to complex rope art (shibari). But it’s not only about the physical tying up; emotional security and trust are just as essential.

Top 5 bondage sex positions 

1. The Spread Eagle

In this classic position, the sub is tied to the corners of a bed with wrist and ankle cuffs. This completely opens the body, which can intensify both vulnerability and arousal. Use soft cuffs to prevent skin irritation and make sure that the sub is comfortable.

Why try?

• Easy to carry out.
• Stimulates complete surrender.

2. The frog-tie

In the frog-tie, the sub’s legs are bent and their ankles tied to their thighs, as if in a crouched frog position. This limits movement, while keeping the body accessible for stimulation.

Tips for beginners:

• Use soft ropes or bondage straps.
• Communicate constantly about comfort and strain.

3. The table scene

In this position, the sub lies with their upper body on a table or other flat surface, with their hands tied behind their back. Their legs can be tied separately, or kept free. This provides the dom with complete control and visual stimulation.

Popular why?

• Versatile and easily adjustable.
• Suitable for use with blindfolds or whips.

4. Shibari chest binding

Shibari is a Japanese form of bondage combining art and sensuality. A popular technique is chest binding, in which ropes are carefully knotted around the chest. This emphasizes the body in an esthetic way and can also apply light pressure, which increases sensation.

Important:

• Watch a tutorial to tie the knots correctly and safely.
• Avoid the neck and make sure that blood circulation isn’t obstructed.

5. The kneeling surrender

The sub kneels with their hands (tied) behind their back. This position is not only physically attractive, but also emphasizes the mental dynamics of surrender.

Variations:

• Add a blindfold or mouth gag for extra tension.
• Combine with soft caress or whip play.

Safety first

Safety is essential with bondage. Here are some tips to guarantee a positive experience:

• Communication: discuss limits and expectations beforehand. Agree on a safeword.
• Material: choose high-quality, skin-friendly tools.
• Check regularly: make sure that the rope or cuffs aren’t too tight and that blood circulation isn’t obstructed.
• Scissors on hand: keep a pair of scissors close, so the sub can be released quickly in case of emergency.

Don’t forget aftercare

After play, the dom should take some time to check in with their sub, give them something to drink, and provide support if necessary. Subs often need some comfort, reassurance or physical tenderness after play, as it can be an intense experience for them (not just physically, but emotionally and mentally as well).