What to do with a large penis

A large penis sounds like something many women and men only dream about. In movies, it seems like the holy grail of sex, but in real life it can sometimes be more of a challenge than a benefit. Because yes, too large does exist. The good news is that there’s plenty you can do to not only deal with it, but also enjoy it.

Lube. Lots of lube.

Porn lies, as everyone there seems to handle half a baseball bat effortlessly. In reality? You won’t get far without lubricant. Literally. A generous dose prevents chafing and makes everything more comfortable.
Go for a silicone-based variant, which stays smooth longer and dries less quickly than water-based lube. Especially if you have a longer session in mind, this isn’t luxury but necessity.

Slow is sexy

With a big penis the rule is: slow is better. Much better. Muscles need time to adjust and haste is the quickest recipe for pain. Set out with long foreplay, make sure to build up tension and don’t let him start off at full speed. Taking things slowly is not boring, but smart. And often much more enjoyable.

Choose positions that work

Some positions are just better than others if you work with bigger tools. Positions where you control the pace and depth are the safest and most exciting options. Think on top or spooning. By the way, missionary is suddenly anything but boring here.

The hand trick with oral sex

Not every mouth is built for an XXL edition. So use your hand as an extension of your mouth: move in the same rhythm, which makes it feel fuller and more comfortable too. Small tip: pace and pressure do more for sensation than those extra centimeters.

Quality over quantity

Long marathon sessions sound like fun, but things can quickly get uncomfortable when he’s very well-endowed. Shorter, more intense moments are often better than hours of grinding. Think more about quality than duration. 

Foreplay isn’t optional

If penetration is difficult or painful, this doesn’t mean the party’s over. On the contrary. Oral sex, hand jobs, toys or massages can be just as intimate and satisfying. Consider it an opportunity to experiment with other forms of pleasure.

Talking about anal sex…

If the vaginal work is already a bit challenging, anal is probably not a good idea. That’s not taboo, just anatomy. If you ever want to try, make sure you have extra preparation, communication and lots of lube. And otherwise: no problem, there’s still plenty left to enjoy.

A large penis does not automatically guarantee better sex. It requires a little more attention and lubricant. Large or not, in the end it’s not about size, but about fun.