How to have hot phone sex!
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How to have hot phone sex!

By Sabine, 05.07.2021

You might have thought about it once or twice, but taking the first step is another thing. We are here to tell you to absolutely give it a try! Use these tips to be a master.

What is phone sex?

You (video)call each other on the phone erotically, by talking dirty for example. You are both masturbating while doing this (one of you anyway). It’s the ideal way to have sex together when you are in a long distance relationship, or when your lover is quarentined! 

Agreement

Phone sex is hot, but it can be too hot too handle when there’s not a complete trust between you and the person on the other side of the line. Even if you’ve known this person for a long time, be sure to come to an agreement about what you are doing, saying, and especially: agree to keep it between you and just you. 

Images?

This is a hard one. There are some great pro’s but also important cons. It’s super hot and exciting seeing the other, but on the down downside: those hot pics can be saved and maybe even shared. So, think about it before you take this step. Talk about it together. Tip: make sure not to include your face or anything recognizable in the images. 

Take your time

It’s just like sex in real life: take your time. Start with foreplay, build up things before you get to the main act. Make it hotter step by step.

Make some noise!

This might be a bit superfluous, but nevertheless very important. You might not be a screamer and that’s alright. But moaning will really give that extra hot vibe. But be sure to mean it and don’t over act it, you’re not a pornstar. 

Share your fantasies

Share your thoughts, find out what makes you hot, what turns you on. Think about the person who is on the other side of the line. Where are you now? How are you positioned? What are you wearing?  Or make up an erotic fantasy and share this with your partner (while masturbating). 

Use sex toys

You can do all kinds of stuff with your fingers, but toys just add to the fun. You will add to the excitement and even the sound of a toy can really wake up the person on the phone. And what about those toys you can control remotely! 

Describe your acts

With phone sex it’s all about describing everything that happens, so the other person can ejoy this with you. Tell them how you are fondling your breasts, how your hand slowly descends down there….and so on! 

Give instructions

It can be so hot to give each other instructions. Let your partner tell you what to do, what to wear and what toys to use. 

There’s room for awkward moments

There’s a chance there will be a silent moment or that it’s just awkward for a moment. Sometimes words fail you or a joke is made. It all part of it, just like live-action sex. Don’t worry about it and just do what feels right! 

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