Practical guide for a better blowjob

A good blowjob doesn’t have to be a neckbreaker. But what should it be? Wet. Attentive. And enjoyable for both of you. And no, you don’t have to breathe all the way down to his balls to impress him. You’ll get a long way with a little attention to detail and the right moves.

Use your hand

Firmly. Let your hand be an extension of your mouth. With the same rhythm, moving with what your tongue is doing. No luxury, especially if he’s a bit bigger. You create more stimulation, more grip, and you stay in control. With such an all-in-one motion, he’ll feel like: wow!

Press his glans against your palate 

This one is seriously underrated. Gently slide his glans against the roof of your mouth. Your tongue under his penis, your palate above, creating a perfect sandwich of pleasure. Alternate this with circular tongue movements or soft sucking. And if you press your tongue firmly against his glans while sucking? Jackpot!

Play with pace

Start slowly. Build up to the rhythm. Keep it up for a moment, then pull away for a break. Look at him. Smile. Let him feel that you run the show. Building tension is just as good as the finish.

Add a finger

And by that we mean: somewhere else. If he’s open to anal stimulation, a finger in or pressed against his anus can really make a world of difference. Just ask him. Start with some light pressure or some circling first. If it feels good, and you’re using plenty of lube, you can slowly take things a little further. Slowly is sexy here.

Don’t forget yourself 

A blowjob doesn’t have to be a one-way street. Touch yourself as you go. Use a toy. Do a 69. Or just kneel with your hand between your legs. If he sees you enjoying yourself, it’ll be twice as hot for him.

Watch his breathing, his muscle tension, his sounds. That way, you’ll know exactly when to tease and when to pick up your pace. And yes, if you want him to cum in your mouth: great. But feel just as free to break the pace if you’re not up for that. You’re in control.

The best blowjob is not necessarily the deepest or wildest. It’s when he feels that you’re really into him. Literally and figuratively.