Dirty talk: Do’s and Don’ts

Dirty talk can be very exciting, hearing it whispered in your ear or saying it to your partner.

It can make or break the sexy mood, so be sure to do the necessary research before you start! 

It’s also about how you say it

The content is very important, but how you say it is just as important. Let’s start by your tone of voice; your tone and the way you intonate influence the way it is received and enjoyed. Talk slow, from your stomach and just loud enough. Don’t forget to use sexy sounds too. Don’t fake it, but don’t hold back either. Sexy sounds will help express your enjoyment!

Definitely Do: 

“You look so hot going down on me”

“You can’t imagine what I’m about to do to you tonight”

“Yes, I love it, don’t stop”

“I love seeing you on top of me. Go on. It’s so hot seeing you like this”
“Take of your clothes, now” 

(You can take it to the level you prefer)

Maybe just Don’t:

“What are you thinking about?”

• This is not necessarily a mood breaker, in some situations it might even be fun. But it can also get a person out of focus. Also: when you are having sex you are probably thinking about sex, so what do you expect your partner to say? 

“Ask me to fuck you”

• Dirty talk doesn’t come naturally for some but commanding your partner won’t help either. Your partner might feel obligated to ask you and that’s not helping the sexy mood.

“You dirty slut”

• Okay, so there are women who think it’s very hot to be called a slut in the bedroom, but you better be sure if your partner is one of them. Especially during a one-night-stand. If this is something you would like to try, check first! Before or even during sex. 

The do’s and don’ts depend on the sexy mood and the situation. To prevent awkward situations we advise you to talk about it with your bed partner before sex. Maybe even in a sexy way, make it part of your foreplay.