How to choose the perfect porn
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How to choose the perfect porn

By Rebecca, 03.01.2019

There is porn everywhere on the internet, which can make it hard to find the perfect site and the perfect type of porn videos for you to watch. If you have thought about it – it probably exists. There are so many niche sites and fetish videos – it can feel overwhelming to begin. Fear not – we have put together some tips to help you choose the perfect type of porn for you to watch.

1. Start Out Slow

You might discover that you’re really into hard-core porn, or super-specific niches, but you should work your way towards those types of videos. Start out with more “standard” videos where it’s mostly regular penetration or oral sex, and work your way to more intense scenes. You don’t want to start watching hard-core bondage if you’re not even sure that you like any kind of bondage.

Start with more timid, basic, videos and see if there is anything that sparks your interest.

2. Gay, Straight or Anything Goes

You don’t have to stick to straight porn if you’re straight or gay porn if you’re gay or bisexual porn if you’re bisexual. Experiment with different types of porn to find out what kind you like the most. If you’re a straight man or a straight woman, it is totally okay to enjoy gay porn. Porn doesn’t have to reflect your reality, and the porn you watch doesn’t change anything about who you are. If you’re a gay woman who only watches male gangbangs, that’s totally fine. It doesn’t mean you want to experience it in real life – it just means that there is something about it that arouses you. It’s also okay to like a variety of types of porn, depending on what you’re in the mood for.

You can start watching porn that reflects your in-person relationships and your dominant desires, but don’t rule out other kinds of porn – you might surprise yourself with what you like to watch.

3. Fetish Porn

Porn can help you explore your different fetishes. You might come across something interesting that you didn’t know existed, or it might help satisfy your desires. You might even be able to learn a thing or two from watching videos (of course, do your own separate research before trying out anything at home).

If you’re looking for a specific fetish video, then it is suggested to start with more mild videos. Check out the description of the video along with the keywords associated with the video. If the description uses a lot of intense terms, then it is probably an intense video.

If you’re not sure – try it, and you can always change the video.

Similarly, you don’t have to be into something to watch the porn video! You can experiment with watching videos just to see what’s out there.

4. Female Gaze versus Male Gaze

A lot of the porn that exists is created by men and for men. If that’s what you like, then stick to it. However, that isn’t the only type of porn that exists. There are plenty of female and non-binary directors that are creating different types of porn. Even the same fetishes are filmed with a totally different mentality and gaze. Don’t rule out something completely just because you don’t see the world in the same way as the director of a video. Finding a film by a director with whom you have more in common with can completely change the way you connect with porn.

The stereotype of porn is that women are treated as objects. However, there are plenty of videos out there that do not treat women as objects, unless that is the specific fetish that they are aiming for.

5. What Porn Sites Should You Use?

There is a ton of free porn available, but when you come across free porn, it is hard to know who is actually getting paid. Is it just the website? Is it the porn company? Is it the actors? Paying for access to porn means that there is some kind of payment model for the makers of the video and/or the actors in the videos.

You can usually figure this out by searching the “FAQ” or “ABOUT” section of a website. Do they mention how they gather their videos? If they don’t, then it’s probably not a site you want to spend time on. Just like with non-porn videos, you want to support the makers and actors of the videos.

If you start your porn search online, you’re going to come across a lot of non-paid sites. We recommend finding ones that have membership fees because the quality of the videos will be better, and the people making the videos will get compensated. It can be a one-time payment to make the movie, or it can be a pay-per-click contract. However it works, it supports the makers.

Most sites have free trials or easy cancellations so that you can try it out and determine if you like it.  Of course, we have to say that Dusk TV is a great place to start! Why don’t you try our Cum & Go of the day, or one of our hottest Cum On Demand video’s.

Finding your perfect porn can take a few trials, but if you use these tips, you’ll get there even faster. You’ll be watching the perfect porn for your desires in no time!

Header Image: ‘Sexual Bliss’ with Alexis & Jayden

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