The best alcoholic drinks for a first date
Dating

The best alcoholic drinks for a first date

By Janna, 26.05.2025

On a first date, it’s all about the right atmosphere – and it starts with what’s in your glass. Drinking the right cocktail doesn’t only help you relax, but it can also say a lot about who you are and the kind of vibe you radiate. So which drinks are perfect for a first date? 

1. The classic cocktail: the Martini

If you want to radiate style and confidence, a Martini is your go-to drink; elegant, timeless and a little mysterious. Go for a dry Martini – classics are always good. It’s a drink that doesn’t raise too much attention, but has a subtle charm. And it’s easy to start a conversation about the ‘James Bond’-vibe (or not, if you prefer not to fall into that cliché).

Why it works: it’s chic and you can easily get to know your date while enjoying your drink, without the need to get nervous about the choice you made. A Martini is an instant mood setter!

2. The refreshing sparkling: Prosecco or Champagne

If you want to create a sense of luxury and a relaxed vibe, a glass of Prosecco or Champagne is the perfect choice; light, festive and the mood is instantly relaxed. Plus, the bubbles can even work a little magic when it comes to first date-tension, just like in the movies. And who doesn’t like a little bubbly to break the ice?

Why it works: Champagne or Prosecco are social drinks, ideal for creating a relaxed and festive vibe. Not too heavy, with an instant breezy and charming setting.

3. The mysterious choice: an Old Fashioned

For those who want to radiate confidence, the Old Fashioned is an excellent choice. This classic, cool drink is perfect for a date where you’re not afraid to show a bit of character. It’s the choice of someone who doesn’t really want to be mainstream, has a certain depth, and shows: “I know what I want and I’m not afraid to show it.”

Why it works: it’s a conversation starter in itself. It’s obviously an old-fashioned choice, but you also come across as someone with taste and experience. Plus, it’s a great way to show that you are not a standard “gin-tonic”-orderer.

4. The relaxed vibe: a Gin & Tonic

Simple, refreshing and oh so popular – the Gin & Tonic is a safe but chic choice. It’s the kind of drink that says: “I’m relaxed, but I have style “. And it’s practically impossible not to enjoy the refreshing taste while talking. Try a gin with just that little extra, like a citrus variant or a herb-infused gin, to give your drink a personal touch.

Why it works: a G&T is simple, but not boring. It has just enough character to make an impression, without trying too hard. It’s perfect for a relaxed date, with a subtle flair.

5. The creative choice: a Mojito

Are you looking for something more playful and with a bit of a fresh taste? A Mojito is ideal on a summer date or when you just feel like something not too heavy. It has that fresh mint and lime which makes it ideal for a casual setting – a bit more adventurous than your standard cocktail, but still easy to drink. And a Mojito is the perfect drink for a chatty date with more banter; not too complicated, but still tasteful.

Why it works: it’s a fun, energetic choice for those not in the mood for a standard drink, but who don’t want to go too far. It creates a cozy vibe, ideal for a more relaxed encounter.

6. The stylish choice: a Negroni

If you want to be a bit ‘cool’ and also radiate a little Italian chic, a Negroni is the perfect choice. It’s a robust, bitter cocktail fitting someone who appreciates flavor, and isn’t afraid to go off the beaten track. It’s a drink for those who don’t shy away from drinking something challenging and stylish, and who are also up for a conversation about classic cocktails

Why it works: it’s a drink with a bit more character than the standard choices. You get the chance to talk about taste, experience and have an immediate topic for discussion. Plus, a Negroni just looks good.

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