7 sexy things to try before the end of 2021

The end of the year might be approaching but there is still plenty of time to sexually experiment!

Thinking about trying something new? Here are a few sexy things to try before the end of 2021.

#1 Try Out Role-Playing

If you haven’t tested the waters of role-playing, there is still time to squeeze in your next sexual adventure! Your role-playing fantasy can be anything from a doctor’s visit to meeting a “stranger” in a bar or being Mrs. and Mr. Claus. You can use simple accessories to make the role-playing fantasy come to life or you can go all out! The choice is yours, but it is a great time of year to experiment with your first role-playing or a new scenario. Interested in role-playing? Check out how to start role-playing with your partner and 6 ideas for your first role-playing scenario.

#2 Explore Dominant/Submissive

Get a little kinkier this holiday season by trying out the different dynamics of a dominant/submissive scene. It is possible you already have a natural tendency towards being dominant or submissive, but try to take that tendency a little bit further. You can incorporate masks, handcuffs, and floggers, or just stick to basic commands. If you don’t have a natural tendency for one or the other, why not try out both with your partner? Spend some time exploring the thrill of this power dynamic. Learn how to incorporate blindfolds in the bedroom.

#3 Wear an Outrageously Sexy Outfit

It’s the perfect time to buy some lingerie! With all the sales that happen this month, you can buy a piece that might otherwise have been outside of your budget. Go for the lingerie item that makes you feel the sexiest version of yourself, and surprise your partner with it! No partner? Just do it for yourself!

#4 Purchase a New Sex Toy

Sex toys are an incredible addition to the bedroom and there is no better time than the present to incorporate a new toy. If it is your first time using a sex toy with your partner, it can be a fun idea to go shopping for one together. If it is not your first time using one together, consider buying something a little bit different than what you typically use. 

#5 Include Another Person

Threesomes are not as easy to come by as the movies might make it seem, but they can definitely be worth the effort. Sex with multiple people can be a great experience if everyone involved is 100% on board with the idea. Make sure your partner is super comfortable with having a threesome before you go ahead and make it happen. It’s okay if you’re not ready for this in December. You can always start the conversation with your partner about it and plan to discuss it more in the New Year. Threesomes are better if there was adequate time to communicate about it!

#6 Have Sex While Someone Watches

Not quite ready to invite a third person into the bed? You can start by just inviting someone to watch! This doesn’t even have to be at your home, it can easily be done as a sex club or a sex party. Exhibitionism can bring a whole different level of excitement and thrill, without any of the potential complications of sleeping with another person.

#7 Create a Sexual Bucket List

If you’re feeling a bit rushed at this time of year, that’s okay! Instead of trying to squeeze a new experience into your schedule, you can create a sexual bucket list for 2022! You and your partner(s) should write down separate lists and then compare them. See what you have in common, and pick a few things that you feel like you must try in 2022. Then, your goal for next year, it to make them happen!

Will you be trying something new before the end of the year? Let us know over on Twitter!

Enjoy the rest of your year!